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“Thrilled to Death!” Our Children, Teens, and Young Adults Are Being Held Captive by Anxiety

"Gen Anxious" "God didn’t give you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind."

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In a world saturated with instant information and constant connectivity, our children, teens, and young adults are grappling with unprecedented levels of anxiety and depression. These mental health crises are not only alarming but also indicative of deeper societal and technological issues that are eroding the mental well-being of an entire generation. Dr. Daniel Amen, a renowned psychiatrist and brain health expert, sheds light on this pressing issue in a recent discussion with Dr. Phil McGraw on the “Dr. Phil Primetime” program, Gen Anxious.

The Grim Statistics: A Generation in Crisis

The numbers are staggering and paint a bleak picture of the mental health landscape among young people today:

  • 57% of teenage girls report being persistently sad—more than half of this demographic is struggling with chronic sadness.
  • 32% have thought of killing themselves, while
  • 24% have gone as far as planning their suicide, and
  • 13% have actually attempted it.
  • 50% of young people feel like their life has no meaning.

These statistics, sourced from the CDC, reveal a crisis of unprecedented proportions, one that Dr. Amen describes as unlike anything seen before in human history. This level of despair and hopelessness among youth is deeply concerning and calls for immediate attention and action.

The Digital Age: An Unrelenting Assault on Mental Health

One of the most significant contributors to this crisis, as discussed by Dr. Amen, is the pervasive presence of technology in the lives of young people. From smartphones to social media, the constant barrage of notifications and the pressure to stay connected is wearing out the pleasure centers in their brains. Dr. Amen likens this phenomenon to being “thrilled to death,” where the relentless stimulation leads to a numbing of emotions and a decline in overall well-being.

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The Role of Dopamine: A Double-Edged Sword

Dopamine, the brain’s “feel-good” neurotransmitter, plays a crucial role in this downward spiral. Each time a notification pops up or a social media post is liked, a small amount of dopamine is released, creating a fleeting sense of pleasure. However, as Dr. Amen explains, the more this cycle repeats, the more the brain’s pleasure centers become worn out. Eventually, young people need more and more stimulation to feel anything at all, setting the stage for addiction and further mental health decline.

The Four Circles: Understanding the Multifaceted Nature of Anxiety

Dr. Amen introduces a holistic approach to understanding and addressing anxiety through what he calls the “four circles”:

  1. Biological (Brain and Body): The physical aspect of anxiety, including brain structures like the nucleus accumbent, which are overstimulated by constant digital interaction. Poor nutrition, substance abuse, and lack of sleep further exacerbate this biological vulnerability.
  2. Psychological (Mind): The mental processes that contribute to anxiety, including the pervasive presence of Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs). These are undisciplined, often irrational thoughts that feed into a cycle of fear and sadness. Dr. Amen emphasizes the importance of teaching young people not to believe every negative thought they have.
  3. Social (Connections and Stress): The role of relationships, social media, and societal pressures in fostering anxiety. Overprotective parenting, loneliness, and the unrealistic comparisons fueled by social media are major stressors for today’s youth. The constant exposure to negative news and the pressure to measure up to idealized images contribute to feelings of inadequacy and isolation.
  4. Spiritual (Meaning and Purpose): The lack of a connection to [God to] a sense of purpose in life is another significant factor in the anxiety epidemic. Dr. Amen points out that 50% of young people feel like their life has no meaning, which further fuels their anxiety and depression.

The Impact of Social Media: A Toxic Mirror

Social media, a significant factor in all four circles, is particularly insidious. It not only overstimulates the brain but also serves as a constant mirror, reflecting back distorted images of perfection that young people feel compelled to emulate. The comparisons to others—who are often portraying idealized, unattainable versions of themselves—can lead to negative body image, low self-esteem, and a deep sense of inadequacy.

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Tech Addiction: The New Epidemic

Dr. Amen and Dr. Phil discuss how the immediate feedback loop created by social media and digital interactions is akin to a tech addiction. This addiction is particularly harmful because it fosters a dependency on external validation, making it increasingly difficult for young people to find internal peace and satisfaction. The over stimulation leads to a cycle where more and more excitement is needed just to feel anything at all, driving the addiction further.

The Erosion of Meaning: A Spiritual Crisis

“50% of young people feel like their life has no meaning.”

Beyond the biological, psychological, and social factors, there is a spiritual void that many young people are experiencing. Without a connection to [God Who is] greater than themselves, [and a sense of purpose that comes when we find out where we came from, why we are here, and what happens to us when we die], life can seem meaningless. This lack of meaning is a significant contributor to the anxiety and depression that so many young people are struggling with today. As Dr. Amen highlights, the fact that 50% of young people feel like their life has no meaning is not just sad—it’s terrifying.

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Addressing the Crisis Holistically

The mental health crisis among young people is complex and multifaceted, requiring a comprehensive approach to address it effectively. Dr. Amen’s four circles provide a framework for understanding the different areas where interventions are needed. It’s not just about treating the symptoms of anxiety and depression but addressing the root causes, from the biological to the spiritual.

Parents, educators, and mental health professionals must work together to create environments where young people can thrive. This includes setting healthy boundaries with technology, fostering real-life connections, promoting positive thinking, and helping young people find meaning and purpose in their lives.

As Dr. Phil reminds us, we are not powerless in this fight. By recognizing the signs of distress, taking proactive steps to address them, and supporting our young people through these challenging times, we can help them reclaim their mental health and their future.

Anxiety is Rooted in a Spirit of Fear

Since we live in a material world and walk around in earthly bodies, with natural appetites and physical struggles, it’s easy for us to relate all our struggles to material, earthly, natural, and physical challenges. Yet, no matter what we may think or feel, the truth is that we are spirits, that have bodies and possess a souls. We are created in the image and likeness of God, who Himself is a Spirit. Our struggle is a spiritual one that manifests in our natural, earthly, physical minds and bodies in how we respond to these spiritual struggles—or better said, spiritual attacks.

“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers,
against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world, and
against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” —Ephesians 6:12

I’ve got good news for you: God loves you, does not harm you, and has good plans for you. Despite all the dark, evil spirits that buffet us, our minds, and our lives, God gives us power, love, and a sound mind.

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power
and of love and of a sound mind.” —2 Timothy 1:7

Anxiety is a spirit of fear, and all this anxiety, all this fear, is tied to the ultimate fear—the fear of death.

The Ultimate Fear

Chris Reed, in his message The Four Gates to Freedom and Fullness shared, “Now, the Bible speaks of the ultimate fear. You know, there are many fears and phobias out there. Some people are afraid of heights, others have phobias of spiders or snakes (including me). But Hebrews 2:14-15 says something interesting:

“Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, He [Christ] Himself likewise partook of the same things, that through death He might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil, and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery.”

Fear is a liar. The ultimate fear is the fear of death, and it equates living in fear with living in slavery. Let me make a couple of statements that I think will resonate with you:

  1. The degree to which you fear death is the degree to which you are in slavery, bound to something.
  2. The degree to which you fear death is the degree of resurrection power that you are currently lacking.

Resurrection power, thank God for it! Aren’t you glad Jesus is alive today? Resurrection power is provided by Jesus’ victory over death. Remember, it says that through His death, He overcame the power of death and the devil, the one who has power over death. Resurrection power gives us victory over the sin nature, sickness, and disease.

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The Fearless Apostles

The apostles in the book of Acts changed the world because they were fearless of death or dying. If you get delivered from the fear of death, which is the root of all fears, what else can you fear? If you’re not afraid to die, no other fear can hold you. The lack of resurrection power in a believer will often be seen and heard in their theology, actions, words, thinking patterns, and behavior. The gospel message, of course, is the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

By the way, in the mind of God, when we put our faith in Jesus Christ—His person and what He did for us at Calvary—in the mind of God, we were crucified with Christ, buried with Christ, and our whole past was buried with Him. We are resurrected with Him and seated with Him in heavenly places in Christ Jesus, far above all principalities, powers, and might.

Faith and Resurrection Power

The Gospel is the death, burial, and resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ, and our faith in that—faith being the opposite of fear. That’s why faith is connected to resurrection power, and fear is connected to death. Fear is connected to death, as I just read to you: “Lifelong slavery to those who have the fear of death.” That’s why Jesus overcame death through the resurrection—to eliminate the root of all fears.

The more fear you have, the more fear of death you’ll have, and it will make you a slave, a slave to something. I believe God wants to liberate some people today from chains, struggles, and habits you’ve been dealing with for a long time. You need that resurrection power infused in you today, replacing fear with faith.

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Faith in Christ Alone

You see, the more real faith you have in Christ, the more evidence of resurrection power will be found in your words and actions. Fear will always blind you; it will cause you to act impulsively, to make bad decisions. They often say that any person, even a leader, can only make so many good decisions in a day. They refer to something as “decision fatigue,” meaning that you start making poor decisions after a certain point. I believe God wants to give grace, help, and hope to someone today who, through decision fatigue, has gotten themselves into a mess, a bad situation. But if you put your faith back in Christ and make the cross—what Jesus did at the cross—the object of your faith, it gives latitude for the Holy Spirit to go to work on your behalf.

Grace is released, divine help through the Holy Spirit. It is the greatest divine exchange. You put your faith in Christ and what He did at the cross, and His overcoming of death. By keeping your faith there, He releases the Holy Spirit to work on your behalf. In fact, God does not recognize other faiths than those in Christ. People have faith in a lot of things, but if it’s not the right object of their faith, the grace of God and the Holy Spirit can’t work for them. They say, “Oh, but I have faith.” But you have to keep your faith unmoved, because often we get our faith off Christ and what He did on the cross. We put it there when we first got saved, but over time, we start putting our faith in our works, in what we do, in what we wear or don’t wear, or in a man, a church, or a denomination.

Find out more about how you can put your faith in Jesus Christ and deal with all fear an anxiety once and for all!

Faith Unmoved by Circumstances

Listen, all those things are good and important, but ultimately, the same faith that placed you in Christ—by putting your faith in Jesus and what He did at the cross—in the mind of God, God placed you, your identity, and your past in Christ. At Calvary, you died with Him, were buried with Him, and are resurrected with Him. In the spirit, you’re seated with Him in heavenly places.

We must not give over the things that God is birthing in our lives to the keeping of Herod type political oppression. We’ve got to take care of it; we’ve got to nurture it. The apostle Paul said this: “My little children, for whom I labor in birth again until Christ is formed in you.” You see, I’ve already been born again, but he was writing to people who were already saved. He says, “My little children, for whom I labor in birth again until Christ is formed in you.” That’s the ultimate purpose of the Spirit-filled life—for Christ to be formed in you, for you to act, think, talk, live, do, and be like Jesus.

We’ve been made partakers of His divine nature. At any stage of development in your Christian walk, the devil wants to use the Antichrist spirit and the opposition you’re facing in the world to stop it before it can get to that place of 30 years old, as was the case with Jesus, when the heavens will open, the Spirit of God will descend like a dove, and the whole world will get changed in 3 1/2 years of ministry.

In Conclusion:

The anxiety epidemic gripping our children, teens, and young adults is a multifaceted crisis that requires a holistic approach to address effectively. The pervasive influence of technology, the constant assault on mental well-being through social media, and the erosion of spiritual and emotional grounding have all contributed to this alarming rise in anxiety and depression. However, as Dr. Amen and Dr. Phil have highlighted, we are not powerless in this battle. By understanding the biological, psychological, social, and spiritual dimensions of this crisis, and by fostering environments of love, support, and faith, we can begin to reclaim the mental health of our younger generations. It’s imperative that we turn to the wisdom found in scripture, which reminds us that God has given us a spirit of power, love, and a sound mind—not a spirit of fear. Through faith in Christ and a commitment to nurturing both the mind and spirit, we can help our youth break free from the chains of anxiety and fear, empowering them to live full, meaningful lives grounded in truth and hope.


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