Five Things We Will Learn
- Why suicide is not a path to heaven but a deception of Satan.
- How Scripture reveals God as the Author of life and the One who numbers our days.
- How God’s mercy, nearness, and deliverance reach those in despair.
- Why joining a Spirit-filled, Spirit-led church family is vital to staying “warm” in dark seasons.
- How to break spiritual oppression and find freedom and hope through Jesus Christ.
Introduction: The Lie vs. the Truth
Suicide is one of the darkest lies Satan uses to destroy people. It offers what appears to be a quick escape from pain—but not only does it rob a person of their God-given life, it does not usher them into heaven. Instead, Scripture shows clearly that life belongs to God, that self-destruction is sin, and that rejecting God’s way leads to judgment, not blessing. Yet, at the same time, God’s heart is to rescue, forgive, and restore, offering life and hope to those in despair.
- Suicide Is Not a Path to Heaven
Life Belongs to God Alone
Deuteronomy 32:39 —
“See now that I, even I, am He,
and there is no god beside Me;
I kill and I make alive;
I wound and I heal;
and there is none that can deliver out of My hand.”
God alone is the Author of life and the One who numbers our days (Psalm 139:13–16). We did not create ourselves, and we do not have the authority to end the life He gave us. Suicide is stepping into God’s role, a violation of His commandment not to murder—including self-murder (Exodus 20:13 “You shall not murder”).
The Eternal Consequences of Self-Murder
While salvation is by grace through faith in Christ, Scripture gives a sober warning about the eternal consequences of dying in unrepented sin:
Revelation 21:8 —
“But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”
Galatians 6:7–8 —
“Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.”
The Bible does not present suicide as a door into heaven. Instead, it warns that self-murder is sowing to the flesh, which reaps corruption, and that murderers will share the destiny of the lake of fire if they die outside of repentance and faith.
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The Thief’s Mission vs. Christ’s Mission
John 10:10 —
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.”
Suicide is not from God; it is from the thief—Satan—whose entire mission is to steal, kill, and destroy. He is called “the father of lies” (John 8:44) and “the deceiver of the whole world” (Revelation 12:9). In the last days, deception will be one of the greatest battles believers face, as many will believe something is right when it is actually wrong (Matthew 24:4–5, 11).
Satan’s lie says: “End your life and you’ll find peace.” God’s truth says: “I know the plans I have for you… to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11). Suicide is not freedom; it’s a trap leading to eternal separation from the God who loves you.
- God’s Mercy and Rescue in Times of Despair
God Is Near to the Brokenhearted
Even when someone feels crushed and without hope, God’s Word offers an open door of mercy:
Psalm 34:17–18 —
“When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears
and delivers them out of all their troubles.
The Lord is near to the brokenhearted
and saves the crushed in spirit.”
Deuteronomy 30:19 —
“I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live.”
God’s heart is not to condemn those who are hurting but to rescue them from the deceiver’s trap. He calls us to choose life, even in pain, and promises to be near, to heal, and to deliver.
- The Author of Life Has a Plan for You
God is the One who created you with purpose and destiny. You were “fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14). He promises that even in the deepest pain, He will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
Psalm 118:17 —
“I shall not die, but I shall live,
and recount the deeds of the Lord.”
You may feel weak, but God’s strength is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). He has a future for you beyond this moment of despair.
- A Call to Life and Repentance
Suicide is a way out of this life, but it is not a way to heaven. It is the ultimate deception of Satan to lure you into joining his destiny. But right now, today, God offers you forgiveness, life, and hope through Jesus Christ.
Romans 10:13 —
“For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”
If you’re struggling with suicidal thoughts, do not act on them. Call out to Jesus. Reach out to a pastor, friend, or emergency help. God has a plan for your life, and His mercy is greater than your pain.
You Need to Stay Warm, by Getting into a Church Family
If you have given your life to the Lord, accepted Jesus as your Savior, and confessed Him as Lord, the next step is just as vital: you need to be connected to His body, the Church. Faith in Christ was never meant to be lived out alone.
If you are already part of a church, be honest with your pastor or a trusted leader about what you’re struggling with. If you are not yet connected to a church family, don’t wait—join one without hesitation. And not just any church—seek out a fellowship that gathers as a true family, Spirit-filled and Spirit-led, where believers love one another, walk together, and carry one another’s burdens.
Maybe the Lord is calling you to join one of the churches of Vine Fellowship Network?
Why is this so important? Because when life grows cold, you need the warmth of family. Scripture says,
Ecclesiastes 4:9–10, 12 —
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:
If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. …
Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
The family of God is where you will find encouragement, prayer, listening ears, and people who will walk with you step by step. You are not meant to carry this burden by yourself.
Breaking the Chains of Spiritual Bondage
Many who wrestle with suicidal thoughts are not only facing emotional struggles but also spiritual oppression. Scripture makes it clear:
Ephesians 6:12 —
“For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.”
What you are facing may be more than just thoughts—it may be the harassment of a spiritual enemy. But the good news is this: Jesus Christ came not only to forgive sins but to set captives free. He gives His people authority over demonic oppression.
Mark 16:17 —
“And these signs will accompany those who believe: In My name they will cast out demons; they will speak in new tongues.”
When you join a Spirit-filled, Spirit-led church family, you place yourself in the middle of God’s design for freedom. The prayers of your brothers and sisters, the power of worship, and the authority of Jesus’ name can drive out the torment that the enemy is trying to use against you.
Don’t Stay Alone in the Cold
Isolation is one of the enemy’s greatest weapons. But God has given you His Church to keep you strong, encouraged, and protected. Step into that family. Share your struggle. Allow others to walk with you, pray for you, and remind you of God’s promises. This is how you stay warm in the cold nights of despair—surrounded by the love of Christ expressed through His people.
📞 Immediate Help Is Available
If you are in the United States and you’re thinking about suicide or hurting yourself, or you’re worried about someone else, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — available 24/7, free and confidential.
You can also chat online at 988lifeline.org.
If you’re outside the U.S., find a hotline here: https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/
You are not alone. Help and hope are available now.
Conclusion: Choose Life
In the last days, deception will be rampant—people will think they are choosing what’s right when it’s wrong. Suicide is one of those deceptions. But God calls you to choose life. He calls you to Himself. He calls you to hope. You are not alone, and you are not without a future. His arms are open.
Key Takeaways
- Suicide is not a way into heaven; it’s self-murder, which Scripture warns leads to eternal separation from God.
- Satan is the deceiver who comes to steal, kill, and destroy, especially through lies in moments of despair.
- God is the Author of life, near to the brokenhearted, and offers mercy, hope, and a future to those who call on Him.
- In these last days of great deception, the call of God remains the same: choose life.
- You need to stay warm by joining a Spirit-filled, Spirit-led church family who can walk with you, pray with you, and help you find freedom.
- If you are in crisis, call 988 in the U.S. (or the international hotline for your country) right now.
Suggested Torch Categories (from your list)
- Suicide / Will I Go to Heaven
- Spiritual Warfare
- Breaking the Cycle
- Breaking Free from Religious Captivity
- Deliverance
- Mental Health
- Depression
- Hope and Encouragement in Times of Trouble
- Freedom and Responsibility in Christ
- Church Community